Attitude is not everything, and yet it is extremely important when it comes to personal success. You are not born with the attitude and you can certainly shape it during your entire life! At the same time, it is important to realize that attitude cannot replace competence or experience, nor can it change your reality !!! It is also fundamental to remember that attitude cannot replace personal development and will not remain positive in itself ... There are things you can only achieve with the right attitude, but not all of them!
How do you know if you have the right attitude?
First of all it matters to see at what point in life you are now and depending on how aware you are, this process can take a day, an hour or maybe even longer.
For this I would suggest you to go through three steps:
1. Identify the emotional problems you have within yourself, ie when do you feel that you are negative towards yourself? - write the answers on paper
2. Identify emotional issues related to others: what are the biggest issues when dealing with others? - write the answers on paper too
3. identify the problems that occupy your mind, because the sum of our thoughts determines who we are: what negative thoughts constantly control your mind? - write the answers on paper.
The purpose of this exercise is not to change your whole thinking mode or attitude, but only to identify some aspects that stand in the way for a positive attitude.
in the end attitude is only a choice and you are the only one who can choose which kind of attitude you want to have in life towards relationships, career, money, authority, rules and discipline, fun and friends etc.
You can decide your attitude! Start now!
Good luck!!
Monica Dimitriu
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